Skipping a grade?

I met with Keilah’s teacher yesterday, and she told me that because of Keilah’s test scores and school performance, she might talk to the principal about having K skip 3rd grade next year. Her awesome teacher recognizes her abilities and gives her lessons that are up to her level so she’s not just doing busy work. Now we’re trying to research if acceleration would be good for her. Here are some of our thoughts:

We wonder if she’ll be ready emotionally and socially.

She’s so tiny, we don’t want her getting picked on.

Yet, we don’t want to hold her back academically.

If she doesn’t skip a grade, and her future teachers just give her “regular” work, she might end up bored.

Last year, she was in a mixed 1st/2nd grade class so she could possibly go to 4th grade with some of the same children next year. This might help her transition.

Do we want her going off to college at 16? That seems really young, and it would only be 9 years away!

We (David and I) will definitely be researching the pros/cons of acceleration before making a decision. However, we were wondering what you, our trusty readers, would do? Do you have any experience/wisdom that you want to share with us? We’d appreciate it!

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david&kimi - November 17, 2007 - 7:42 am

congratulations nely! i say let her go. nothin like having a jump start on life. do i have any wisdom to share? no. as i was NOT offered to skip a grade :o ] i don’t think you have to worry about her being picked on.

johnjohn - November 17, 2007 - 5:26 pm

Hmm this is a tough question, I didn’t per say skip a grade, but I did start school early. Well you know how they are about kids if your birthday isn’t before a certain date, then ya know, anyways that was me. The proof is in the pudding, you know she could totally turn out awesome and smart like me, she might even finish college in less than ten years. Haha, in all seriousness though you guys have a tough decision to make, but I am sure that you guys will make the best decision for keilah. Everyone here will be prayin for ya guys on what decision to make.

cynthia - November 18, 2007 - 11:18 am

that’s a tough one…but i honestly say do it. it sounds as if she is pretty well grounded to begin with and with others in her class that may follow, she should do great! it’s a great thing to be smart and i say let her shine!
do what you feel is right in your heart….only parents know what’s best for their children.
good luck in your decision and keep us posted!

kgirl98 - November 19, 2007 - 2:57 pm

Hi,
First of all, congrats on raising such a wonderful child! I firmly believe that environment has lots to do with a child’s growth, both mentally and physically — so give yourselves a pat on the back for doing so much with her! :o )
By chance, have you guys discussed this with Keilah? Yes, she’s young, but she may surprise you with her thoughts!

Meagan - November 19, 2007 - 10:15 pm

So….I was the one who had to stay with the rest of the kids. My test scores and all put my parents in the same position. BUT, they all didn’t feel that I was ready socially. I’m not sure about that…I know I was a “highly sensitive child” anyway. I think things were going to be challenging to me regardless of the decision. And I think I would have been more challenged had they moved me forward. I wish I had skipped 3rd grade. I don’t dislike my life, God has done wonderful things…but I don’t think skipping would have been bad. There are intellectual habits and patterns I’ve developed that are a direct result of that boredom. Regardless of your decision, Keilah has a wonderful life of blessing in store…and of course you have support whichever direction you choose. I agree with asking Keilah what she thinks. She probably has a lot of insight…

Love you guys!

nely - November 20, 2007 - 1:51 pm

Thanks everyone for the feedback. We are going to keep praying and researching for the right thing to do. Keilah says she’d be happy either way. We might just be a little over-protective, as she is our firstborn.

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